Description: This article is about pof login, which tells the author’s experiences of using the online dating services. The author also shows us why sometimes POF does not work well.
Today I want to talk about online dating plenty of fish, OkCupid and my experiences of using these services. I will also talk about where you might be going wrong and why it doesn’t work for a lot of people.
Quickly let up a document here because I want to cover a few things. Number one is your photo. Your photo is the most important thing about your profile. When you’re not confident, it’s not attractive. When you are confident, you can say this is me. I’m living my life. I’m happy. I’m smiley. I’m a nice decent person.
People like reflect on that and connect with that. As I realized my biggest problem was my photos. My eyeballs are putting out there and in my photos I was very tense. I was very rigid. I was very stiff. I was standing there like a statue, like a robot and it’s a completely different appearance. When you have a photo that’s confident, it shows who you are.
The next reason why plenty of fish doesn’t work or why it generally sucks is that I’ve been trying this service for around two years or so and it’s never worked for me. I never get any messages. Here is my profile, a brief summary. I’m putting my life on the line. This is like my personal information.
This is my own personal profile. I was on OkCupid and I was on plenty of fish. I tried magic.com as well. I had to pay for that and I’ve got a nice normal photo with a nice normal background. The thing is when I look at my photo, I think to myself that photo that I have is very forced.
I still look a bit tense in my photo and I have a bunch of other photos as well which are not on my computer. But I decide to go out and say I’m going to take some photos of me. I’m going to do it and my photos looks better.
Because I was happy in those photos and I wasn’t forcing myself to take the photos. Confidence is everything when it comes to online dating. Be a confident person. Be who you are. Say who you are. Say what you like. Say this is me.
Other people like it or they don’t like it. The big problem with plenty of fish and OkCupid is that they are big waiting games. A lot of it are waiting game. I’m going to put my little menu over there.
The real reason why plenty of fish and OkCupid doesn’t work is that lots of people sit there. They create an account. They sit there and wait. It’s like they wait for something to happen. They wait for opportunities to come to them. Waiting doesn’t work.
It’s like you can sit there your entire life. I’m not 26 years old. I’ve been trying to find a girlfriend for the past four years. That’s right. I’ve been single for years which is driving me crazy. I’ve been single for years and I realize that a lot of online dating in general is a big waiting game.
You wait for the one to come along and they look interesting. It’s hard to be a horrible person. It’s like you don’t see the real person behind the photo. All you see is the photo of that person. You don’t see these people who they are. That’s why online dating doesn’t work.
Do you understand what I’m saying? That does not work. Because you never see the real person. All you see is a photo. That person might look interesting. I mean look at plenty of fish to put all these photos and enjoy a bunch of very interesting individuals.
I know nothing about these people but when I try sending messages to people. Ether people don’t reply to my messages. It’s a lot of work and frustration effort. So my advice to people that are struggling with the same problem is to work on your confidence. That is the most important thing.
Work on your confidence. Work on yourself. Work on you. Because plenty of fish and online dating destroy your confidence. They destroyed my confidence.
Thanks for reading my rant on my thoughts about plenty of fish and online dating. In general if this helps you, please leave a comment and share your stories and your nightmares with these services.
I know I’m not the only one. Lots of people have the same problem. And it never seems to get solved. Seriously we have the Internet. We have these great resources. Why these problems not act being fixed? It blows my mind. That’s all I have to say about this topic. So thanks for reading. Please leave your comments and your feedback.